A buck’s party, also known as a stag night or bachelor party is a pre-wedding celebration for the groom-to-be and his best mates. The event is usually organized by the groom's friends or best man and is meant to be a final farewell to singlehood and for many, a rite of passage as you enter married life. These parties are full of fun and sometimes wild activities and events.
As a farewell to the groom's single life before his wedding, a memorable buck’s party can be centered around outdoor adventures, clubs, drinking and sporting activities, depending on the groom being celebrated. Traditionally, buck’s parties are male-only events but can be mixed- gender as well, celebrating an opportunity for close friends to bond and create lasting memories that are cherished for a lifetime.
Who to Invite and Who Not to Invite?
The typical guest list of a buck’s party includes close friends and family members of the groom. More specifically, a best man, groomsmen, best friends and some immediate family and extended relatives are included. Depending on the groom, some may want to include childhood friends who they grew up with or a close uncle or cousin that they share similar interests with.
Keep in mind the activities and tone of the party when compiling a guest list. A “wild night” might not be an appropriate buck’s party to invite a work colleague whereas a golf outing could be perfect. When in doubt, always check with the groom on who he would want at his buck’s party to make it special and meaningful for him and his closest mates.
In addition, some grooms may want a smaller and intimate group of friends while others want to go all out on the guest list. Stay away from inviting anyone not close to the groom, any ex partners, or people who might disapprove of the event and activities involved. Clear communication with the groom about who he wants and doesn’t want at the buck’s party can help avoid awkwardness or hard feelings. Ultimately, the guest list and activities should reflect the groom's comfort level and his desired tone for the event.
Tips for Organizing a Bucks Party
Your first step to organizing an incredible event is to talk to your groom. Having a clear vision of what he wants and has in mind is the best way to figure out if a simple night out, weekend getaway or an elaborate event with private activities, or adventures is his style. Budget, location, activities and themes are all things to consider when planning a buck’s party. Take a closer look below to create the perfect bash!
Set the Budget
Setting a budget is a simple way to ease financial stress and ensure everyone is on the same page. Each person involved has a different amount of money that they are comfortable spending. Talking with the groom and individuals and laying out the cost up front can encourage everyone to be able to decide what they are able to do and their level of commitment or financial limitations. Having a rough overall budget can be a great way to set expectations, budget deadlines, and keep transparency for a fun time without breaking the bank!
Choose the Location
Is your groom a beer guy or wine drinker, golfer or hiker? Or maybe he loves barbecuing in the backyard versus a lavish weekend away with fancy dinners. Depending on the groom’s interests and what kind of activities he wants to do, the location can be easily catered to his own style and hobbies. This combined with a set budget is a seamless and simple way to figure out if a one day or night event vs a weekend away is the way to go!
Decorate with Party Accessories
Consider the location and activities when planning the perfect party accessories. If you are heading to a club, keep decorations minimal with themed props or funny signs. Hosting a buck’s party at a house or venue is an easier way to go all out with creativity. Banners, balloons, posters and hanging swirls can add a playful touch. Incorporating personal style of the groom or nods to his significant other can be a fun way for him to feel celebrated. Themed drinks, cocktails or inflatable props or novelty hats for a photo both are exciting ways to add to your party, too.
Best Bucks Party Ideas
The ideas are endless when it comes to planning the best buck’s party. If you are looking for a great way to spend time with your groom’s favorite people, eat some delicious bbq and have endless fun, here is a list of popular activities that you can do together:
- clay target shooting
- axe throwing
- paintball
- bubble soccer
- go-karting
- vr arcade
- whiskey/cocktail/beer tasting
- party boat
- karaoke
- games/trivia about the groom
- lawn games
- bonfire or beach day
Bucks Party Shirts
Personalized items like t-shirts, hats, or sashes for the groom and guests are a fun way to make everyone feel part of the celebration.
Here are some funny phrases that would be great for printing on shirts and accessories:
- Groom's name's Squad
- Groom's name's Last Stand
- Groom's name's Final Countdown
- Groom's name's Drinking Crew
- Groom's name's Farewell Tour
- Groom's name's: Game Over
- Groomzilla and His Pack
- On Duty for Groom's name
- Buy Me a Beer, I'm Getting Married
- In Doghouse Training
- Last Night on the Loose
- We’re Here for the Beer
It’s also another way to create a keepsake for all the attendees and a way to look back on a fun adventure had by all.
Conclusion
A buck’s party is the ultimate way to celebrate your favorite guy with a party that reflects him. The occasion should be filled with activities that mirror your groom’s personality and interests and offer a memorable, fun and safe way to do so. A buck’s party is not only about your groom’s favorite things themselves but about bonding and the stories that will be told for years to come. We encourage you to make the most of this special occasion and check out our party accessories and catering supplies to create the best bucks party yet!